You Know...

Musings

You know how things just fall into place somwehow. I mean, you don't notice it, but later when you look back they were in a beautiful etheral sequence and you wonder, is everything in our lives a sequence of events that perfectly fall in place?

You know how some people are just meant to do something, like they have been sent here by whoever it is up there for a certain thing. When that gets over it is just time for them to leave. Like Yash Chopra, he was here to make movies, make us fall in love with love. Then he decided to stop, and suddenly his time was over. 

You know how people leave? How is it that you always need and want closure. Why can't we be okay with open ends? Why close them at all? Leave them alone and just move on, why wait for someone else to give you answers?

You know... Insecurities? We have so many of them. Everyone has them. We give ourselves such a tough time. Hair. Body. Looks. Intellect. Something or the other. Why can't we just be okay with the things we have? Give ourselves a break.

You know how people make mistakes, sometimes humongous ones, sometimes negligible ones. Sometimes there is forgiveness, sometimes there isn't. Again why can't we ease up on the mistakes? As in not about not making them, we are humans, but maybe ease up on the forgiveness part. Why do we always need an apology, if someone doesn't apologise we get annoyed, furious even. We threaten them, push them just so that they would apologise to you. Once they do, you forgive them anyway, then why the ruckus?

You know the partial need for sympathy that all of us have? Telling people about your problems, somehow getting it in a normal conversation. This to mainly save yourself from being judged. Subconsciously, all of us are afraid of being judged. But the same people are also good at judging people. 

Well, you know...